I give thanks to the ancestors who brought me forth

I am the great-granddaughter, granddaughter, and daughter of strong, intelligent, ingenious women who knew how to survive tough times. Culturally, I most identify as Sicilian, because my Sicilian paternal grandmother was the one person who ensured that she taught her culture to me. On the other side, my ancestry is more mixed and obscured, but I descend from Icelandic folks who survived long, cold winters inside and have seen the face of depression. They too were survivors, as were the Scots-Irish or Ulster Scott, and French Canadians who were my maternal grandfather’s people. My ancestors were immigrants, refugees, settlers, colonizers, freedom-seekers, makers, and business-folk. I am on a journey of cycle-breaking an healing generational/ancestral trauma.

I honor my teachers, who nurtured and shaped me into the person I am, and am becoming.

I would like to thank the following teachers living and dead, past and present, relational and aspirational, especially those who saw me.

the late Professor Robert Proudfoot from the University of Oregon

Ms Karen Randall

Ms Teri Zappacosta

Lindsay Mack

Nikki BlaK

Barbara Saunders

Rebecca Weber

Oubria Tronshaw

the Wayfinder 2024 Cohort

the Student Coalition for Palestine

Yara Arely

Sharon Langlois

Char

Darla

Lesley

Vandimir

George Jackson

Jason

Patrick

Julie Griffin, chT

Kathryn Crabb

Robin Barre

Wiggsy

Jack 

The 2005 Track C “the Herons” cohort from the MA in Counseling Psych program at Pacifica Graduate Institute

Mrs. Nanez

Marlo Thomas and the cast of “Free to Be You and Me.”

Freud

Jung

Miller

Klein

Bowlby

Bowen

Holly Osment

Marty Klein

Diana Ferrari

Professor Cindy

Joe Geraci

Susan

my cohort and all psychotherapy interns at the Hollywood Sunset Free Clinic, past and present

the late Bobreta Franklin

the late Susie Franklin

Cherissa Boyd

the Entheogen family

The Grateful Dead, punk rock, funk, and jazz. 

Patrick Teahan

Dr. Ramani

All of my amazing peers and teachers at Journey Clincial

MAPS

Rhoney Stanley 

Bear

Aleister Crowley

Karyl McBride

My husband, B

My stepson, E

My daughter, A


My past, present and future clients


And to all of the cycle breakers out there.



 

"Lia's guidance has brought us to the best place our relationships -- all of them -- have ever been. 

Lia has been a wonderful support and guide for us, as we have struggled to find our path to a happy, well-centered marriage. She has been instrumental in working through some of our significant issues of self-esteem and insecurity that had held us back from deepening our connections. As partners who each identify as bisexual and polyamorous, we have found it difficult to locate a counselor who is both accepting and knowledgeable in these areas; Lia has been outstanding in her empathetic support of our healthy, honest relationship choices."

E., age 51, QA engineer and L., homeschool parent, age 50, Sunnyvale

 

"Lia counsels people from 'alternative lifestyles' so you know she's heard all the nasty juicy shit. 

Lia has been absolutely invaluable to me. I understand why, too. It's impossible to get a truly objective view of yourself. I have tried. I read books, meditated, took psychedelic drugs, you name it. I learned a lot about myself for sure, but it's all within the context of my own head. You need external observation to corroborate your ideas about yourself. Unfortunately, most people don't provide the best feedback. They've got their own issues to deal with, so it's hard to get a really good idea about yourself from those around you. Lia is different. She is an emotional mirror for me. She observes, listens, and responds back with what she sees and hears, and her insight is incredible. She is not so much a doctor as a guide. She will help you learn about yourself. "

J.T., age 44, automation engineer, San Jose

 

“Lia is an incredible healer.

I worked with Lia to help me overcome some issues I was having with debilitating stage fright. I had taken up the guitar and was having a lot of problems being comfortable playing it in front of audiences. The fear was overwhelming and it was mysterious to me because I had been a performer for nearly 25 years already and never had these kinds of phobias before. One [hypnotherapy] session really calmed my nerves and improved my playing dramatically."

Margaret Cho, Comedian and musician, Los Angeles

 

"For the first time in my entire life I finally feel like I am ok in my gender identity, and there's nothing wrong with me.  

First and foremost, thank you. For the longest time I couldn't understand why people liked me, or would want to have much to do with me because I couldn't see what they saw. There has to be a flaw, why can't they see it like I do??? But for the first time in EVER do I really believe that I'm (perfectly)ok. Even though other well intentioned friends had tried to convince me that it was true, I never honestly believed it until now. You are very good at putting puzzle pieces together. All my quirks and shenanigans-- crew, wrestling, my maintenance jobs, recycling, getting a fifth-wheel!, gym time, camping/hiking solo (not my smartest idea), and so much more...( I even took a tractor-driving class my first semester of college!) didn't fit the mold my family thought I should have/do/be in, but in reality are perfectly acceptable things for me to like and do. Thank you so much for telling me and convincing me."

A.A., age 42, park ranger, San Jose


“We feel like this is a safe place where [my partner and I] can have uncomfortable conversations.”

M., age 41, sculptor and installation artist, Campbell